I had a great time sitting in with Audrey as the "special guest" on the June 11th show.

During the discussion about the fact that "all that glitters ain't gold," Audrey mentioned the four aspects of each person that must be engaged for true intimacy: physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual.

She also suggested a few books for people interested in getting past the glitter in a relationship to the genuine article. They were:

The Seven Levels of Intimacy, Matthew Kelly

Uncoupling, Diane Vaughan

Should I Leave Him, Carol Doss

Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix

I'd also suggest Audrey's book Getting Good Loving.

One of my favorite things Audrey said during the show was when she reminded us that we "always have relationships. You can practice [intimacy] all along." That way, when that Significan Other shows up you're ready for him or her.

UP NEXT: Audrey discusses the meaning of fatherhood, and the ways we can define "father" for ourselves, with two local men.

All the best!